无意中看到同学的分享，心念一转，同样的事情，不同的角度，效果真乃一个天一个地。先欣赏下文的精彩：
A writer was in his study room. He picked up his pen and started writing:
**Last year, I had a surgery and my gallbladder was removed. I had to stay stuck to the bed due to this surgery for a long time.
**The same year I reached the age of 60 years and had to give up my favourite job. I had spent 30 years of my life in this publishing company.
**The same year I experienced the sorrow of the death of my father.
**And in the same year my son failed in his medical exam because he had a car accident. He had to stay in bed at hospital with the cast on for several days. The destruction of car was another loss.
At the end he wrote: Oh God! It was such bad year!
When the writer's wife entered the room, she found her husband looking sad and lost in his thoughts. From behind his back she read what was written on the paper. She left the room silently and came back with another paper and placed it on side of her husband's writing.
When the writer saw this paper, he found his name written on it with following lines:
**Last year I finally got rid of my gallbladder due to which I had spent years in pain....
**I turned 60 with sound health and got retired from my job. Now I can utilize my time to write something better with more focus and peace.....
**The same year my father, at the age of 95, without depending on anyone or without any critical condition met his Creator.....
**The same year, God blessed my son with a new life. My car was destroyed but my son stayed alive without getting any disability......
At the end she wrote:
This year was an immense blessing of God and it passed well!
The writer was indeed happy and amazed at such beautiful and encouraging interpretation of the happenings in his life in that year!
Moral: In daily lives we must see that it’s not happiness that makes us grateful but gratefulness that makes us happy.
好了，故事温馨无比。老夫人很有智慧，也必定是一个乐天派，把老爷爷一开始乌云密布的心情瞬间化作和煦的阳光如沐的春风。
这也让我联想到前些年一直在流行的一个视频：讲述的是在风和日丽的一天，一个盲人在人群中间乞讨，人来人往，没有几个人会施舍给他。这时来了个时尚女孩，她修改了盲人的乞讨牌子，奇迹般的，人们开始不停地给盲人投币投钱，乞丐自己则一脸懵逼，想不通女孩做了什么。当女孩再出现的时候，盲人问她她在自己的告示板上做了什么，女孩很低调，只是轻轻说了一句，我没有做什么，只是改了几个字。这就是有名的典故Words change the world. 女孩的用词为什么比乞丐的更有威力？因为乞丐写的是I am blind, please help me. 而女孩写的也是It's a beautiful day, but I can't see it.
有部风魔全球的作品《秘密》Law of Attraction, 讲的就你的人生其实正是你心里所想的念头的变现，不管好的坏的，想啥来啥。这个跟佛家的心法高度契合：万法唯心变，亦或相由心生。
They say the shadow of darkness if skyblue. 任何问题的背后，不管多么糟糕，都隐藏着美好的一面，需要的，是善于发现美的心❤。
笔者有为堂姐梅，从小命苦，出生不到一年自己的母亲被村里的恶霸赶走了，只能跟着父亲相依为命，父女俩跟着堂叔一家生活，每天起早贪黑，干不完的农活，又苦又累，到了读书年纪，因为贪玩不听管教，被父亲把教科书给砍碎了，一年级上不到一半就被迫在家干活，砍柴，挑水，放牛，种田，…大大小小啥活都干完，尽管如此，梅还是得不到大家的认可，总是被婶娘讽刺她没有母亲没有文化野蛮无礼，17岁不到，托人说媒嫁到了邻村，开始生娃养娃还有无尽的家务农活，这么能干的梅在婆家依然不待见，忍无可忍之下梅选择了离婚。毅然决然走上了自己喜欢的道路去追求自己想要的人生。10年披荆斩棘，梅从一个目不识丁的农村妇女，摇身一变成了广州的一家工厂的老板，也重新组建了幸福的家庭，有车有房有钞票金银珠宝时尚有颜值，学会了认字写字，走南闯北，富婆衣锦还乡，以往对梅很不待见的人都纷纷改变的看法，刮目相看。梅并没有计较曾经为难她的人，而是对大家都以礼相待，看到困难的家庭还会出手帮忙，看到老人还敬爱有加。我问梅是什么让她放下别人对她的不好，她说因为养育之恩，自己吃百家饭长大的。再问是什么成就了她的今天，她说因为只有自己强大了才不需要去依赖任何一个人，也才能给父亲最大的生活保障。
没有钱，不认识字，没有文凭，没有人际关系，没有经验，没有背景，……在很多人看来是巨大障碍，无法前行，她却变不可能为可能，突破自己的极限，直到最后的胜利✌。非常励志感人的故事，只需要稍微想象，如果梅悲观认命，那么一辈子都只能窝在山旮旯，一辈子受人欺负，一辈子做牛做马身不由己。
可见一个人的正向积极思维，小至左右心情，大至影响生活，事业，乃至累加起来人生。君不可不三思而想而行也！>_<
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